Trixie's Not Sure What to Make of the Other Side

Trixie is a Southern Belle of a cat, the beloved kitty of Melissa. 

Melissa made the difficult decision to put her to sleep. Melissa called me. She missed her so much. Could I make sure that Trixie was all right?

Most pets cross over without a problem, but Trixie didn't.  Trixie didn't want to leave Melissa. She felt that Melissa needed her. Trixie was deeply anxious.

When pets have passed away, if they choose to not cross over, they are in a deeply anxious state, and their owners feel it. These are the owners that say, "I don't know why, but I'm not getting over this." or "I'm so sad. I didn't expect to be this upset."

This is not to say that it's abnormal to deeply grieve a pet. To be an owner of a pet that hasn't crossed over is to feel a deep state of anxiety, not just a deep sense of loss.

It's very rare, though, to encounter a pet that hasn't crossed over. 

Trixie hadn't. She didn't want to leave Melissa. Melissa needed her. She didn't want to leave.

I told Trixie that she could come back, in spirit, and help Melissa once she crossed over.  Trixie said, "Okay, I'm just going to say goodbye."

I emailed Melissa to let her know that Trixie hadn't passed over. Melissa said that she had a dream that she was fat and full and happy. This was healing for Melissa. 

Trixie on the Other Side

So, I checked in with Trixie a few days later. Most pets, on the other side, are filled with joy. Their spirits are light. Trixie didn't feel that way. She felt, well, crabby. 

I said, "You crossed over, right?"

She said, "Yes."  

I said, "Okay. What are you up to?"

She showed me a cottage with a passel of little old ladies playing cards. There was some light classical music playing. Trixie sat on an antique table. 

This, too, is VERY DIFFERENT, than the typical cat experience (which is full of cats and catching things, and being outside in beautiful weather). 

Trixie said, "My helper said that when I want, I can stop having a owner, but I'm not ready. I need an owner." 

I showed her how to visit Melissa on earth. She was afraid to jump down. I've never felt fear with a pet that's crossed over. Trixie seemed so alienated. 

So, I've been working with this modality called "Theta Healing". I go up to talk with God, and ask him to heal whomever I'm working with. It requires some deep meditation, but I am happy that I can do it. 

I went up to talk with God. I said, "God, Trixie needs help." 

God said, "Yes, she does. That's why I sent her to you."

I burst into tears. 

Please understand. I don't mean to say this in a conceited way. I mean to say that it is hard for me sometimes to believe that there is a plan or that there is a destiny or that we are called to do what we do.  It's hard for me sometimes to even believe that there is a God, although I talk with this benevolent spirit often. 

So to hear, "Yes, she does. That's why I sent her to you." was to feel a puzzle piece click into place. 

God said, "You need to tell Trixie that she can do whatever she wants. She doesn't understand this." 

Ah! Okay. I can do that. 

So, I went to Trixie and said, "Hey, you can do whatever you want." 

I showed her a few things that I thought she'd like. I showed her that she could grow herself up to 60 feet tall, or she could imagine and create bowl after bowl of food. I showed her that she could chase and catch things. I showed her that she could go to Melissa. 

It dawned on her that she could really do anything. Anything. Really. 

"I want to go to Melissa," she said. She was excited. 

I said, "Okay. You know how to step down."

"Yes," she said. "I do." 

And there she went. 

Comments

[Rene]

Wow what a wonderful story! I also do theta healing how wonderful to use with animals!

[Sandy]

What an incredible story. How wonderful that you could help dear Trixie